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Lacking Motivation? Strategies for a Thriving Mindset

Unlock the mystery of lasting motivation with our deep dive into the Self-Determination Theory. Learn practical strategies to fuel your journey to success and personal growth.
Lacking Motivation? Strategies for a Thriving Mindset

We all strive to excel, to push through the barriers that life places before us. But what fuels this relentless drive?

How do we harness the power of motivation to not just survive, but thrive?

As a Dietitian and Psychologist, I've seen the profound impact motivation can have on our mental and physical health.

Let’s delve into the science behind motivation and uncover practical strategies to ignite and maintain this vital force.

The Essence of Motivation

At its core, motivation thrives on three pillars, as delineated by Self-Determination Theory:

  • competence,
  • autonomy, and
  • relatedness.

When we feel skilled in our endeavors, have the freedom to choose our path, and connect our actions to the well-being of others, we create a robust foundation for sustained motivation.

The Challenges to Staying Motivated

Why do we often find ourselves in a motivational rut?

The reasons are as varied as our personalities. Sometimes, we're intimidated by the enormity of our goals, or we find them too trivial to spark our drive.

Other times, we may lack a personal connection to our objectives, leaving us adrift in a sea of listlessness. Recognizing these moments of faltering momentum is crucial, as is the ability to re-engage with our goals swiftly and decisively.

Cultivating and Sustaining Motivation

So, how do we get and stay motivated?

It begins the moment we initiate a task. Let's embrace the wisdom of Confucius, who taught us:

that to move mountains, we start by carrying away small stones.

Here are five strategies to light the spark of motivation:

  1. Select Meaningful Goals: Choose objectives that resonate with you. If a goal doesn't stir your passion, it will likely falter.
  2. Establish a Motivation Ritual: Dedicate time each morning to focus on your goals. This consistent practice affirms your commitment.
  3. Embrace Self-Reflection: Invest in self-care and introspection. Reflect on your journey, acknowledge your progress, and recalibrate when necessary.
  4. Employ a Motivation Framework: Use tools like the 3C model of motivation to dissect and address specific motivational challenges. (explained below)
  5. Design a Resilience Plan: Prepare for setbacks. Having a support system can fortify your resolve and celebrate your triumphs.

The 3 C Model

The 3C Model is a framework that helps individuals understand and enhance their motivation by examining three key components:

  1. Content: This represents the 'what' of motivation—the actual goal or target you’re aiming to achieve. It’s crucial to choose goals that are personally meaningful and challenging enough to be engaging, but still achievable.
  2. Context: This is the 'why' behind your goal. Context involves the reasons, values, and importance of the goal in your life. It provides the emotional fuel to keep you motivated.
  3. Infrastructure: This is the 'how' you’ll achieve your goal. It involves the systems, routines, and environment you set up to support your pursuit of the goal. Good infrastructure makes it easier to stay on track even when motivation wanes.

By analyzing their motivation through these three lenses, readers can craft a more effective and personalized strategy to achieve their goals.

Here’s an example of applying the 3C Model to the goal of losing 10kg:

  1. Content (The Goal): The clear objective is to lose 10kg. It's specific, measurable, and time-bound if you set a deadline, making it a solid goal to track and work towards.
  2. Context (The Why): Understanding why losing this weight is important to you. Perhaps it's for health reasons, to improve mobility, to enhance self-esteem, or to prepare for an event. This context provides the motivation to stick to your plan, especially during tough days.
  3. Infrastructure (The How): This could involve setting up a meal plan, scheduling regular exercise sessions, perhaps with a trainer, and organizing your environment to support healthy eating and activity. It might also include finding a support group or a dietitian, like yourself, to help maintain accountability and provide expert guidance.

By breaking down the goal into these components, someone aiming to lose 10kg can create a focused and actionable plan that addresses the what, why, and how of their motivation.

Applying the Science to Your Life

How can you implement these insights?

Start by identifying a goal that aligns with your passions and expertise—perhaps enhancing mental health through nutrition. Each morning, spend a few minutes planning how you'll advance towards this goal.

Reflect on your progress weekly, adjusting your approach as needed. If you encounter obstacles, consult the 3C model to identify the crux of the issue. And remember, always have an accountability partner to share your journey.

The journey of motivation is personal and ongoing. By understanding its science and applying these strategies, we can create a life that's not just about enduring but flourishing.

Today, choose one strategy to incorporate into your routine and take that first step towards a thriving life.